Psychology is the scientific study of behavior and mental processes. Behavior includes all of our outward or overt actions and reactions, such as talking, facial expressions and movements. Mental processes refer to all the internal, covert activity of our minds, such as thinking, feeling and remembering.’ (Ciccarelli & Meyer 2006)
So many questions which seem really complex to find an answer about human personality become crystal clear if an ounce of extra attention is paid to human psychology.
There will always be a reason why we meet people no matter how short it can be.
Ever wondered why we meet different people at different places at different times? That one time when you thought what could be the slimmest reason for meeting that stranger on the subway which resulted in quite an interesting conversation afterwards. Or the other time you were grouped with a stranger on a classroom act and ended up being close friends. Rings a bell about similar occasions? Remember, either we change their lives or we are the one that will change theirs, as there always remains a reason for meeting any individual.
Don’t take everything personally.
Not everyone thinks about us as much as we think they do. As late basketball legend and a great human being Kobe Bryant quoted in an interview, people don’t actually care about us as much as we imagine they do. It will do a world of good if we remain carefree about others’ opinion.
As interesting as it appears to psychological facts about personality, people who swear a lot tend to be more honest, loyal and upfront with others.
A perception that has been mistaken by people often is people who swear a lot are bad people. This is not the case according to researches. They fair better in terms of loyalty in any relationship and tend to be honest with whomsoever they accompany with.
As one of the psychological facts which are interesting, intelligent people tend to remain faithful while in a relationship.
Interesting, right! Intelligent people tend to remain intact in a relationship. Call it a stereotype or whatever, it’s a known belief that people with higher intelligence don’t hop around relationships as they tend to restrain themselves within their own specific environment.
The less we speak, the more our words will matter.
You might have noticed the one who speaks the least gets more attention than anyone else in your group.
After being disappointed so many times, we begin to lose hope in everything.
Yes, it’s not uncommon to bounce back and help ourselves grow again yet rare are such occasions and we end up losing faith in almost everything.
Tears won’t come when we miss a person. But they come when we don’t want to miss a person.
People might think they cry when they miss someone. Yet the case is rather the opposite. We cry because we don’t want to lose the person, not because we have already missed the individual.
Love starts when we don’t need it and ends when we need it the most.
It is always those we love the most that will hurt us the most.
When we look back at our past and think of our worst moments with our close ones, it comes to the fore that the ones that we gave out our heart to have hurt us the most. It can be defined by simple logic, if we lend out too much we end up being poor.
Men are more romantic than women and they are likely to fall in love at first sight.
The other time you remember someone saying women are more romantic and you believed it, well, you might be wrong. Researchers claim that men tend to fall in love quicker than women. Can it be the explanation of men making the first move a not so much less than a cent per cent?
When a person sleeps more than average and likes sleeping all the time, then he is very sad.
Witnessing someone sleeping too much than usual? Well, it turns out they might not be in their happiest mood. Try giving them more time and affection.
Never be afraid to try something new, because life gets boring when we stay within our limits of what we already know.
Never ever say never. Who knows you might be the next Bil Gates or Elton John or Mark Zeckurburg if you follow something you have been wishing for years yet somehow you managed to slip it out. Now maybe a good time to start.
As one of the interesting facts about psychology, long lier are good at detecting other person’s lies.
Experience counts, as cunning as it sounds in this case. If you know someone who speaks a lot of lies, well don’t try testing the same technique to that chap or otherwise, they will give you their own medicine.
While talking to someone use their name to make them like us more.
Trying to impress a tough guy? Use their name. Put that timidity out of the situation. Or if you want your crush to like you back, use their name often. Name is the sweetest music to ears after all.
When we are ignored by a person whose attention means the most to you, the reaction in our brain will be similar to physical pain.
We know our heart hurts a lot when someone ignores us. This is similarly processed by our brain as if we have some kind of physical pain.
When we focus on problems, we will have problems. The moment we start to focus on possibilities, more opportunities will arrive sooner or later.
Say this is simple logic. If we give space for someone to rent in our house, chances are they will stay much longer than expected. However, if we don’t rent out, no such nuisance is on our way. Don’t give problems for problems. Think of possible and probable solutions.
Never give up on something we want from our heart. It would be difficult to wait but it’s more difficult to regret.
Ever thought to quit on something you something really want? Scientists’ advice, don’t. Your heart would never make up for it if you gave up on it. It’s better to wait rather than hanging up the boots.
Decisions become more rational when thought in a foreign language.
When we think in a foreign language, our brain pushes itself to work harder. In the process, it wakes up the rational thinking part which yields positive results most of the times.
Beauty never lasts forever.
As disappointing or sadly funny as it sounds, beauty never lasts forever.
As one of the psychological facts about life, the older we get, the fewer people we start to trust.
As you get older, you may become more protective of your secrets. You are only willing to open up to a select few. You no longer want everyone to know your personal business and only trust these couple of good friends who you know you can rely on.
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